Are you one of those people who remain in a mobile triangle-work, home,church, or work, home, grocers? If you find yourself hanging out in the same areas day in and day out, it might be time to try something new. This also applies to white men seeking black women with no success. There are 4 great tips to help you get out of that dating rut and on to the man of your dreams. These tips are life-changing and may not be for the faint of heart.:
Broaden Your Horizons
Concerts, Sporting Venues, Clubs, Ect- Don't limit yourself to one genre of music. Explore music that's not exclusive to African-Americans. Visit concerts with artists that have a more diverse appeal (Nickelback, Fallen Up, Green Day). Attend sporting events that offer diverse activities (golf, tennis, hockey, baseball). There are also adventure groups that people can join as a way of meeting people. If you enjoy the club scene, frequent the ones that are also diverse. If you see a white guy that sparks your interest walk up to him and ask him to dance. You might be pleasantly surprise at his response!
Break From The Normal Routine
Shopping - Frequently shop in malls and shopping centers that are ethnically diverse. If you live in a multi-cultural neighborhood you're already ahead of the game.
Concerts, Sporting Venues, Clubs - Don't limit yourself to one genre of music. Explore music that's not exclusive to African-Americans. Visit concerts with artists that have a more diverse appeal (Nickleback, Coldplay, Maroon 5,). Attend sporting events that offer diverse activities (tennis, hockey, baseball). There are also adventure groups that people can join as a way of meeting people. If you enjoy the club scene, frequent the ones that are also diverse. If you see a white guy that sparks your interest walk up to him and ask him to dance. You might be pleasantly surprise at his response!
Take Action
Travel - Young single black women should travel abroad as much as possible. Not only will you be exposed to different cultures, it's just plain fun. As far as the cost to travel, there are many inexpensive ways too see the world. Many travel agencies offer discount packages and off-peak vacation passes. There are travel groups for black women going abroad and it's a wonderful opportunity to meet other open-minded people.
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Why are you wasting your time reading this? Get out and start mingling at some of these hotspots. The only way to be successful is to go out and try. The world is at your feet!
Yay! This might seem redundant or unnecessary to those of us who get it, but as a group black women do not get the same info as other women about how to position ourselves around quality men of other races. This is exactly the kind of info some of need to move on and socialize around the biggest group of men available in this country :)
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