*Blasian Site Alert*

"...If you are not looking for a "real" site, then you wont like it here. If you are attempting to avoid honesty, reality, and just haven't learned how to handle yourself in a social context, then this might not be the site for you.

[This disclaimer is for those who have been on sites that were shut down because of "drama."  


If you can't handle it, don't start it. If you are moderately deceptive or value lies or extreme privacy, well, this may not be for you- I am not shutting this site down over drama.  The focus here is to bring acceptance to inter-racial, inter-cultural relationships, with the main importance of the once (and in many ways still-) taboo connections of Black Women and Asian Men.- V. Cambodia, The Great One



Lawd folks are getting fed up with the BS and I'm loving every bit of it!  Asian  men are stepping their game up.  That's what I'm talking about.  This young man has a forum, chat room, events page...damn lemme go sign up real quick lol.  Thanks for the link AB.


Ya'll enjoy the rest of the week. 

 I'm out!

The Finale- Let's Talk About Pep

So will this season's show open up more opportunities for black women to be seen in interracial relationships and/or love interest on some of these reality shows.  Because frankly The Bachelor can kick rocks! 

Check out the full version of the finale Episode 8...

An Asian Man's Guide To Dating Black Women

According to every statistic that's ever printed, written and video taped, African American women and Asian men are the least likely to hook-up. So imagine my surprise when I found this gem over at Articlesbase:


"This is a short Asian men dating black women guide. If you're an Asian guy who love brown women (like one of my friend) I'm going to give you a couple of information to find yourself a black girlfriend -- because finding a brown girlfriend does not hold to be hard, if you know what to do. I'm going to show you how to dress, so you instantly attract dark skinned women and they will compliment you like no tomorrow."

Seriously?

I mean aside from the grammatical errors throughout the post, I don't know if I'm offended or honored. But I have so many questions. The author goes on about what he believes will be instrumental in getting your very own dark-skinned black woman:


"Where to meet (plenty) of Black women There are certain parts of the city where there are dark skinned women, just like how there are Chinese people in China town."

How cute!

He then suggests hanging out at the local coffee shops and malls. Hmmm the only black women that I see at my local Harris Teeter Starbucks are the one's that work there. Now the mall, that's a different story.


He continues by offering some fashion tips and encourages his male readers to "take action" to change their social life. I believe this is the best advice anyone can give because its true. I believe too many of us don't this due to fear of the unknown or fear of rejection.


Life is too short to not experience it and too short to worry about how others perceive you. So get out there and start mingling at those coffee shops!