What Does An Asian College Kid Know About Stepping In The Name of Love?

I tell you what, there's absolutely nothing that will stop young creative, progressive people from getting their message heard. The passion and energy that they possess is simply limitless.


Some how I became a Facebook friend to one such kid by the name of Vouthynar "V" Sovann.  While attending college at Maryland University, V manages to find time to admin not one but two sites dedicated to interracial relationships.


 I've showcased one of his sites previously on DWB but didn't realize he was one of the founders back then.  Interracial dating among Asian men/black women continues to draw the curious and one topic posted by a member on his forum drew over 150 responses!


V, himself an interracial dater, is known for his lavish house parties, family friendly events, and holiday inspired bashes.  I have yet to make it to one of his parties but I've heard that people are traveling from as far as Texas and Georgia to attend.


To check out V's Beyond Skin Deep United and be heard, follow the jump...


Side note: Hit up V's Facebook Page to see him "stepping"-  It's too cute.


I'm out!

Dating Expert Says Black Women and Asian Men Make Beautiful Couples

African American women sometimes feel they are under attack from a constant stream of negative information from the media. ABC News and “Nightline” both recently featured long segments dedicated to the problems black women face finding suitable mates. And with many African American men struggling with low graduation rates and high incarceration, those problems don’t seem to be going away.  


Many black women have taken to dating outside their race and are looking at white, Latino and Asian men — and that is good thing according to dating expert JT “The Asian Playboy” Tran.  Tran says that African American women and Asian men have a lot in common, because they are often avoided by members of their own race. He urges both groups to open their dating horizons.   
  
More racial harmony after the jump...

*Blasian Site Alert*

"...If you are not looking for a "real" site, then you wont like it here. If you are attempting to avoid honesty, reality, and just haven't learned how to handle yourself in a social context, then this might not be the site for you.

[This disclaimer is for those who have been on sites that were shut down because of "drama."  


If you can't handle it, don't start it. If you are moderately deceptive or value lies or extreme privacy, well, this may not be for you- I am not shutting this site down over drama.  The focus here is to bring acceptance to inter-racial, inter-cultural relationships, with the main importance of the once (and in many ways still-) taboo connections of Black Women and Asian Men.- V. Cambodia, The Great One



Lawd folks are getting fed up with the BS and I'm loving every bit of it!  Asian  men are stepping their game up.  That's what I'm talking about.  This young man has a forum, chat room, events page...damn lemme go sign up real quick lol.  Thanks for the link AB.


Ya'll enjoy the rest of the week. 

 I'm out!

The Finale- Let's Talk About Pep

So will this season's show open up more opportunities for black women to be seen in interracial relationships and/or love interest on some of these reality shows.  Because frankly The Bachelor can kick rocks! 

Check out the full version of the finale Episode 8...

8 Reason's Why I Love VH1's Let's Talk About Pep

8. Her side-kicks have distinct but plausible personalities.

7. Tiffany (I Love New York) Pollard is not in this.

6. I love Kittie's laugh.

5. Did a pretty decent job in profiling black women dating in America.

4. Did I say New York's not in this?

3. Pep’s ongoing storyline of her interracial relationship with an Asian dude name Tom (who cooks his a** off).

2. Pep produced the show.

1. Being responsible for the scene where old boy's s-curl catches fire. That right there will go down in television infamy!

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An Asian Man's Guide To Dating Black Women

According to every statistic that's ever printed, written and video taped, African American women and Asian men are the least likely to hook-up. So imagine my surprise when I found this gem over at Articlesbase:


"This is a short Asian men dating black women guide. If you're an Asian guy who love brown women (like one of my friend) I'm going to give you a couple of information to find yourself a black girlfriend -- because finding a brown girlfriend does not hold to be hard, if you know what to do. I'm going to show you how to dress, so you instantly attract dark skinned women and they will compliment you like no tomorrow."

Seriously?

I mean aside from the grammatical errors throughout the post, I don't know if I'm offended or honored. But I have so many questions. The author goes on about what he believes will be instrumental in getting your very own dark-skinned black woman:


"Where to meet (plenty) of Black women There are certain parts of the city where there are dark skinned women, just like how there are Chinese people in China town."

How cute!

He then suggests hanging out at the local coffee shops and malls. Hmmm the only black women that I see at my local Harris Teeter Starbucks are the one's that work there. Now the mall, that's a different story.


He continues by offering some fashion tips and encourages his male readers to "take action" to change their social life. I believe this is the best advice anyone can give because its true. I believe too many of us don't this due to fear of the unknown or fear of rejection.


Life is too short to not experience it and too short to worry about how others perceive you. So get out there and start mingling at those coffee shops!